In these days of Skype, text, and instant messaging, email, conference calls & social media, has the art of the in-person meeting gone out of style?
Everyone’s busy on a daily basis. Our days are so filled with work, family, extra-curricular activities and basic maintenance, many of us often proclaim that there isn’t enough time in a day to keep up. So we find ourselves multitasking, ultimately using email and IM’ing to communicate throughout the work day to keep things moving along smoothly and systematically. But if we eliminate the occasional face-to-face meeting from our agenda completely, can we really get the job done to its full potential?
I’ve found that meeting with a client in-person often proves to set a project on the right path more so than direction via any other medium. Speaking to the client team involved offers you the chance to get the perspectives that count and receive their motivation in a more clear and passionate explanation. Designating a time to discuss specific plans face-to-face provides an opportunity to share information in an animated conversation that is supplemented with facial expression, body language and tone of voice. We’ve all experienced the misconceptions that may occur in the reading of an email (Do you take writing in ALL CAPS for a harsh yelling tone? Or does cryptic messaging sometimes sound slick and sarcastic when you’re IM’ing back and forth?). True intentions that sometimes get lost in the writing, could easily be construed in a simple conversation. You can get more done in a face-to-face meeting than electronically, because there is a connection that comes with physical presence that not only allows the flow of communication to come through in a more vivid conversation style, but also provides access to further information brought on by simple observation.
Engagement in carefree conversation adds that element of understanding and personalizes the interaction. This contributes to the transfer of information and ultimately helps build relationships. Connecting in-person is key in developing good relationships, and people are more inclined to do business with those whom they have a relationship with. Social Media is a prime aspect in the business practices today, but it should be balanced with face-to-face interaction. The in-person meeting gives all involved a better sense of what each other is about. Think about it – would you make a hire based solely on the strength of a resume/application? Or do you require a 1st, 2nd, and sometimes 3rd interview before making the final decision?
The latest forms of communication are valuable, effective and necessary in the evolution of business tactics today, but we must not obliterate the tried and true practice of engaging in-person. It’s only natural to prefer to do business with those you know, like, and trust. Good business requires a mix of online and physical collaboration. There is a strength in having all bases covered.

Nikki – Very Nice article. I enjoyed it and agree. Hope all is well.
BeLinda Cook
Employment Coordinator
Deborah Heart and Lung Center
Thanks BeLinda! It’s great to hear from you. I’m so glad to know that your reading our blog. I hope you participate in the occasional contest too. You’ll have to come for a visit one day and check out our new office. I hope you’re enjoying the summer.
Nikki, I really enjoyed your article. E-mail, IM, Social Networking (I’m not sure I will ever master Twitter) are and can be the most effective ways of reaching someone quickly. However, nothing will ever be more effective than a direct conversation.
John
Thanks for the comment John, and thanks for reading my post. You’re so right. Soon after this post went up, I started to come across this topic on Facebook, television, and in general conversation with friends even more. The more our social media tools grow in popularity, the more some begin to yearn for more personal contact. Some people are forgetting to keep that balance in their professional and personal lives.